After Yesterday’s men circle, I feel more and more how women and men are like a different specie... 
After many years believing we are very similar but simply conditioned to play 'only' a certain role in power dynamics, I see and feel that women are just functioning very differently than men.

How do you perceive it?

We can experience the same emotions, the same thoughts, the same spiritual essence, and yes we also are all unique. But the physical body, the hormones, the cycles, the physical strength, the endurance, the sweat, the smell, the softness/hardness of our skins are mostly very different between genders. Yes we can feel the same way, but on the long term our bodies are just designed to perform differently. We are not meant to expect from each other the same performance rhythms! And they do play an important role! 

This really shows me how important it is to bond, to forge experiences with others of the same gender. We simply understand each other on a visceral level naturally. 
Whereas when other genders mingle and even attraction comes in…. Oy Oy Oy! Are you able to withstand the burning fire of attraction?

I observe how men in search for peak experiences, and with their deep seated insecurity of sexual unfulfillment tend to 'provide' more than is adequate for their nervous system. They want to please, offer, be in service because a lack of interest, safety, and attention is returned from women… Trying to 'buy' and 'win over' the hearts of closed, insecure female bodies...
Just really listening to one another could change the whole world…

But a liberated sexual men, one who is experiencing altruistic sexuality, meaning with all life forms(Plants, rocks, the elements, humans, etc.) is behaving very differently. I personally experience this from time to time, not always but ever more… I won't sacrifice my integrity for a search anymore. I’m living the journey. I don't care about what I am missing. I don't need to show that I am powerful, penetrative, ... I’m okay with what I have.

And I am highlighting men here because women are showing themselves much more like independent creatures.. I know I am generalising a lot right now, and I am not yet discussing the reasons why they present themselves like that …
But I see a general trend that men seek women, and much less the other way around. Just look at dating platforms.. how statistically women are overwhelmingly more ‘liked’ compared to men. 

This is all to say that I miss to see open, honest, sexually liberated men around me(and women as well but that’s for another time!). Men that are deeply excited at life without projecting a continuous unfulfilling vibe around other men, because they project their happiness only around women for their sexual validations. I believe men are also much more attractive like this. Like they would get a much higher likelihood to attract women.

How do you perceive it?

And again as we gathered yesterday for the men circle, I warmly invite men to reach out! Whether you’re looking to join between men in one of my circles or if you would like me to hold space for your processes in a 1:1 setting. Let me hold space for you. Come